She's at peace

Ruth Esther Kuxhaus, 91, of Oak Park died peacefully surrounded by family on June 28.  Born in Detroit on May 31, 1919, she was the oldest child of Chester and Viola Kotowski. She grew up in Pleasant Ridge and graduated from Lincoln High School in Ferndale. For many years she managed several RB Shops, and later worked at Jacobson's in Birmingham. Generous, never complaining, Ruth was happiest in the company of family and friends. She showed great strength and bravery in recent years as she battled a series of difficult afflictions. A greatly loved mother, grandmother, friend, and aunt, she will be greatly missed. 

Preceding her in death were her husband, Otto Kuxhaus; brother, Benjamin Kotowski; sisters Rose Tuma and Doris Steinberg. She is survived by her brother Arthur (Nancy) Kotowski, Newburg, OH; her children, Byron (Colleen) Kuxhaus, Royal Oak; David Kuxhaus, Ashland, KY; and Valeria Long, Grand Rapids; grandchildren Robert (Rebekah Winters) Long and Justin Kuxhaus, Seattle; Margaret Long, Oakland, CA; Laurel Kuxhaus, PhD Potsdam, NY; her life-long friend Priscilla Krippendorf; and many beloved nieces and nephews.

The family would like to thank the staff of Heartland and Beaumont Hospices and Hannah's Home Care for their care and compassion during Ruth's last weeks. Visitation at Wessel and Wilk Funeral Home, 23690 Woodward Ave., Pleasant Ridge, from 3 to 8 p.m. June 29. Memorial service June 30 at 11 a.m. at First Congregational Church, 1314 Northwood Blvd., Royal Oak. Memorial contributions may be made to the church.