Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Another Day, another menu to fill out....

Mom was looking pretty good this afternoon. Bored, happy to have a visitor. The PA came in to check mom out, when asked about recent blood work she said her hemoglobin is within acceptable range 8.6-8.9. I thought it was supposed to be higher, but they're satisfied with it and are keeping a close eye on it. We talked briefly about the shoulder problem that mom is pretty sure is just bursitis. Don't know why she doesn't listen to them, she's been right on so many things including "I'm fine, can't complain about a thing".

I brought out what mail she had and her church directory. She likes to call people when she's lonely and feeling sorry for herself so watch out FCC. While we were sitting around talking a friend from church, Bruce, came in for a visit and I ventured to the internet cafe. Earlier today, the employee luncheon took place and I accepted a pizza that no one wanted. Yippee, now I've got dinner AND breakfast!!!!

Mom's bored. She wants to go home. She doesnt' seem to comprehend that she is still pretty weak even though she is progressing with her PT and OT. The PA commented that they plan on keeping her a while to get her strength back. While I was watching her earlier, she had to get something out or put something back in her Armoire she was so wobbly when standing and relied on the opened doors to steady her legs. It's difficult to watch and even more difficult to realize she thinks she's fine and can be home alone, or with part time assistance.

Considering all she has been through this year I'm amazed at her ability to selectively accept life on lifes terms. I doubt if I was in a similar situation I would be as patient and gracious as she is. This must be what it means when people remind me that I have teachers everywhere.

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